No luck in the dating scene? Let this blog help be your guide

Allow me to start out by saying that in no way do I claim to be any kind of dating guru; what I've found are proven ways that really work to cause attraction, help you get phone numbers, and great dating ideas that are fun (and cheap) for you. I suppose the real way to do this would be to start out by showing the science behind attraction and how it developed and evolved over time to allow you to get a deeper understanding, however I think that that would be best left to following blogs, and I'll keep this one simplified. The main thing to remember is that no matter how you look, whether you've got a chiseled jaw and model-like looks, or have average or less looks, there's always something you can do to improve your physical appearance. The basics are definitely good hygiene, shower regularly, be well groomed, and things of that nature. Also, I try to say that if you lack something, try to make up for it elsewhere. So if you have very thin hair, make sure you keep that smile nice. Once you have that down you can work on what you're wearing. I recommend clothing that is timeless as it will not go out of style and you wont have to continuously buy new clothing; with that in mind, I often wear a nice leather jacket, a plain (black or white or brown) t shirt, and a pair of black or brown casual shoes.
After you're all freshened up and looking great, it's time to meet some women! Where you go to meet the girls is entirely up to you and what you want in a woman. If you're looking for an intelligent woman try going to a bookstore. If you're looking for a girl thats nice and in-shape, try going to the gym. Now that you're at your desired location, its important to find the girl and maintain eye contact with her. This is important guys, when I say maintain eye contact, I don't mean stare. huge difference. So you've made eye contact, now don't look away, let her look away instead. So once she looked away just walk up and introduce yourself, definitely don't be cut and dry about introducing yourself, try being funny! Make a comment about her purse being too large or her shoes being very tall. This, as described by David DeAngelo is cocky comedy. Cocky comedy is essentially using a cocky comment mixed with some humor. A cocky comment, for instance, would be "Wow you're purse is huge!" but mixed with a little bit of funny it could be used like this "Wow that purse is huge, got a gun in there?" and say it with a grin. She'll get it. So now that you've introduced yourself you don't want to linger any longer than you need to. So after you introduce yourself just tell her you need to get going and that you'd love to give her a call, so get your pen and paper out and just hand it to her and when she writes it down give her a hard time about it using cocky comedy; and make sure to ask her for her email since shes writing her number down anyways.
You have her number so what're you going to do? Call her. Not the same day, but the day after or so just let her know you want to get together and get some coffee or just something small like that so that its a quick meeting and its cheap too. So go on the date and work your cocky comedy, and if you don't have cocky comedy down pat its better not to do it than to mess it up so work on the cocky comedy and get it down pat so that you can do it on command.
From there the rest is history and whether or not you take it to a serious relationship or not is up to you. Good luck and happy dating!